Hi Gillian, Tony and all!
I've just had a great time reading this whole saga. Fancy meeting up again in Rochdale,, Gillian! Mainly though just to reiterate what people have said, I've always been astounded by the service above and beyond expectations given by Rochdale Local Studies, Bury Library and Heywood Library and also |Rochdale Cemetery regarding their own and Heywood records.
I contacted the cemetery, really on in my research, before they were so inundated, just to see whatthe set up was for lookups.
They asked mne to give them a name, and I didn't even have dates on me, but they got back in no time with two graves, one of which had three generations of grandparents - g, gg, and ggg and a child I wasn't aware of. The other and one they guessed was a family grave, gave me details that found a good few marriages, and other info.
I will look through all my grave papers and see if there are any links.
By the way, I've not forgotten the Cumbrians, but I've not managed to get recently.
Thanks for the great read.
Emms