Tony
Thank you for this. They really did their best for you at the cemetery office, didn't they? It's difficult to say which is the better route to find a grave. If you look at the cemetery website, they are supposed to charge you £23 to look up the graves for you, and I have heard from someone else, who was given one free go, as she wasn't aware of the charges, but was told she would have to pay £25 next time. I'm not sure if their search includes supplying copies of the records, but I should think so. Also I don't know if there is any difference in cost if you are calling personally at the office or writing to them.
Rochdale Local Studies, on the other hand, charged me £4 for finding, photocopying and posting 2 sets of grave records (2 pages each). And they do this usually within a couple of days. I suppose if you went in personally it could cost even less. I wrote to them with all the Hurst names, dates of birth and death and relationships, but in the case of the Adamsons, I only had the patriarch and his wife's details, and that didn't make much difference, as they still found the grave.
Obviously you charmed Andrea into finding the graves gratis

at least I hope so, as you haven't informed me of any costs. And quite apart from your personal magnetism, you did have the references already, so didn't need help on that score.
Sorry, I'm not sure which is the best way for you. I didn't have grave or grant numbers at first, but the grave was found through the family names and burial dates. I don't know whether their records are filed according to name, date, grant number or grave number, but they can probably be found any way, if they've been entered on computer as well as filmed.
Regards,
Gill
