... Richard was married 4 times. ....
Only four?

I have not yet disentangled the history of Richard Pickstock but, looking at the signatures on the relevant marriages, I had come to the tentative conclusion that he was indeed the tailor from Manchester, b abt 1770, son of Isaac Pickstock (tailor of Northwich) and Ann / Nancy nee Carter.
I have the following marriages for Richard:
- Margaret / Peggy Woodward, 24 Mar 1788, Collegiate Church, Manchester;
- Janet Bayley (widow), 1 Jan 1804, Collegiate Church, Manchester;
- Sarah Dobson (widow), 27 Sept 1806, Collegiate Church, Manchester;
- Hannah Heeley, 14 Dec'r 1808, St. Mary the Virgin, Eccles, Lancs (based on signature, etc.);
- Frances Gravett
The first 3 wives can all be found in burial registers - I have no clue on Hannah's death, other than there being an otherwise unmatched (by me) burial of a Hannah Pickstock at the Collegiate Church, Manchester, on 17 April 1825. The match is not too good on age as Hannah Heeley appears to have been b abt 1788 and the burial was b abt 1782.
Anyone able to match the burial better?My
unsupported belief is that the Thomas Dobson who was his son-in-law was actually his
step-son, son of the former Sarah Dobson. The use of the term "son-in-law" for step-son is known at this time - one famous Nelson letter uses the term like that. However, there are just too many Dobsons for me to be certain of it.
The daughter, Ann, who m Thomas "Dowlam", may be Nancy Pickstock, bap to Richard and Margaret back at St. Helen in Witton, Northwich, 25 April 1790. My further
guess is that she married Thomas
Downing, coachmaker of Manchester, at the Collegiate Church on 27 Sept 1814. I'd be grateful if anyone can comment on whether Thomas "Dowlam" may indeed be Thomas Downing as I can't see whether Thomas did go out to SA. (It is possible of course that the Collegiate Church's records are wrong!)
The only children I have traced for Richard are all to Richard and Margaret:
- Nancy bap 25 Apr 1790, St Helen, Witton;
- Margaret b abt 1793/94, bur 2 June 1794, St. Helen, Witton;
- Margaret bap 10 Aug 1795, Collegiate Church, Manchester, bur 30 March 1797, St. Helen, Witton;
- Isaiah, bap 30 April 1797, Collegiate Church, Manchester, d bef Oct 1802?
- Josiah(?), b 18 March 1800, bur 20 Oct 1802, Wesleyan Chapel, Gt Bridgewater St., Manchester
- Isaiah or Isaac, b abt Oct 1802, bur 21 Nov 1802, Wesleyan Chapel, Gt Bridgewater St., Manchester - there are two versions of this register with 2 names!
The burials back in Witton are clearly this couple as the St. Helen registers are in an extended format at this time.
I suspect there is at least one other child, a Richard Pickstock, as someone of that name, b abt 1792 in Manchester and a tailor, is recruited into the Army in the Manchester area before deserting pretty quickly. There is no real reason to connect him to this family other than the extreme rarity of the name. It's also not clear where he could fit into the family, unless btw Nancy and the first Margaret.
I have only done a quick check but I think that Richard the elder is in the Manchester Rate Books until the 1807 edition, which suggests he moves out of Manchester, marries Hannah, moves down to London.... Weird. (I confess that I have checked the online newspapers for any unexplained Pickstock deaths!)
Grateful for any further comments....