Hi Faera,
Welcome to the Rootschat and the NZ Board.  New members need 3 posts before the Private Messages (PM) can be activated.   Just post one more time with a smiley or a Hello, then you and Hutchy Baby can exchange messages.   You can also send a message even though they are off line (grey tells you off and green on), and they will pick it up when they log on.
Cheers
KHP