Dear Toni, Your Fred that you are looking for is my father and my mother is still alive.They lived in Southampton after the war and he died about 1968.I knew my grandparents in Lewes and the rest of his brothers and sisters. I was only told of his prievious marraige by my Aunt ie my mothers sister 3 weeks ago which is why I looked on the internet and found you. Are we related? I was very shocked and upset at first but am ok now. I am so glad I have found you.Chrissie