Hi Sylvia,
Thanks for looking. My James Rutherford was born abt 1837 in Latheron, Caithness to Elizabeth Sutherland and reputedly Robert Rutherford (farmer). His brother Thomas Rutherford bap 1798 in Birdhope Craig, Northumberland to James Rutherford and Nelly/Helen Elliot married Elizabeth's sister Jane Sutherland in 1820 in Latheron where he had come to work as a shepherd.
There are no other Rutherford's in Caithness except my James and Thomas and Jane's family in the 1841 census, and I have been in contact with a descendant of this couple recently who reports a great aunt of hers wrote down most of the family history some time ago and has the following children for James and Nelly:
Ann Rutherford bap 1791 Birdhope Craig
Mary Rutherford bap 1793 Birdhope Craig
John Rutherford bap 1794 Birdhope Craig
Thomas Rutherford bap 1798 Birdhope Craig
George Rutherford bap 1799 Jedburgh, Rox
Andrew Hugan Rutherford bap 1801 Jedburgh, Rox
Adam Rutherford b abt 1802
James Rutherford b abt 1805
Robert Rutherford
Alexander Rutherford
William Rutherford b abt 1813
Henry Rutherford b abt 1818
James and Nelly and most of their family (including daughter Mary and her husband Thomas Patton, sons Henry, William, James, Andrew H, George and John) ended up in the USA. I have details of their census returns in the US and burials etc.
George returned to Scotland and died there in 1862, Thomas stayed in Scotland and died in 1879, I have no record of Ann, Alexander or Adam as yet and the only info I have on Robert is that he apparently died in Edinburgh

I am thinking that when the family left for the US in 1832 that my Robert went to stay with his brother who was at this stage settled in Caithness, had an illigitimate son there, and then moved back down to Edinburgh at some stage where he died??
It is a bit of a muddle, but we are starting to get somewhere, it is just a pain that I cannot find baptisms for the later children!
Jenny