Hi
I think Rilla may mean the 1841 census?
1841 census HO107 1061/7 folio 42
Charles Street Lambeth Surrey
Hester Bargrove 25
Margart Bargrove 4
both not born in county
also same census
HO107 485/7 folio 23
Belson Southfleet
Ester Bargrove 27
Margaret Bargrove 3
Carlione Wooding 14
all born in county
Margaret was of the parish of Milton next to Gravesend on her marriage in Newington in 1859.
There is a marriage of an Esther Bargrove in Kent in 1846
Marriages Mar 1846
Bargrove Esther Dartford 5 129
BURT George Dartford 5 129
A possibility for the couple on the 1851 census in Stone Kent HO107 1607 folio 529. The banns were read at St Saviour Southwark 24th April 1842 but the marriage did not take place. Esther was a widow. Esther the wife of George Burt was aged 37 and born Meopham Kent. The eldest Burt child on the census was aged 8. George looks to have remarried by 1861.
Possible death registration for Esther.
Deaths Mar 1854
Burt Esther Dartford 2a 145
A Mary Bargrove - enumerated as Mary aged 13 on the 1851 census in a school in Gravesend Kent. Her birthplace is given as Dartford. HO107 1668 folio 141
A possible death registration of a William Bargrove of Northfleet in 1840.
Deaths Sep 1840
BARGROVE William N Aylesford 5 26_
He left a Prerogative Court of Canterbury will
Will of William Bargrove, Farmer of Northfleet , Kent
21 July 1840
PROB 11/1930
http://www.nationalarchives.gov.uk/documentsonline/browse-refine.asp?CatID=6&searchType=browserefine&pagenumber=1&query=*&queryType=1
A possible for Esther Wooding's baptism, though she would have been adjusting her age a little on censuses.
HESTER WOODING
Christening: 01 MAR 1812 Meopham, Kent
Father: THOMAS WOODING
Mother: ANN
Regards
Valda