I'm still struggling with this one, although the 1911 census has turned up some interesting possibilities.
I realise that this is now off-topic, so please tell me if I need to re-post it elsewhere.
I am fairly certain that I have found the 1904 birth that I was looking for, living with grandparents as his mother is in hospital.
I still haven't found his father or sister in 1911.
However, going back to the 1901 census I found him as an 18 year old with his parents.
My dilemma is that he is too young for the wedding certificate that I have just one year later which says he is 21.
Nowadays we have to supply a birth certificate to get married.... Could anybody tell me whether he could have lied about his age in 1902?
I know that you could lie about your age to join the army at that time, and even in WW2
Occupation-wise 1901 is general labourer, 1902 shunter, 1904 railway porter.
Father is butcher 1901, shunter 1902, unemployed butcher 1911 - stretching things I know but would he have wanted to put father unemployed on his marriage certificate?
Any help appreciated as I have very little hair left to tear out..
P.S. His father hasn't signed the marriage cert as a witness, it is some unknown name, possibly best man. Her mother has signed