Hi Jim, thanks for taking the time to look.
I checked with the Tees Valley Index and there were two Emmeline's born in 1885 mine is the one with the middle name of Maud.
I double checked with the marriage index and i have the right one.
I have had problems locating her in the 1901 census also, she didn't marry until 1910 so must have had a different spelling for her name.
I contacted a lady on another site and she has the other Emmeline.She was the one who gave me Anthony as my gt gt gt grandfather.
The 1901 entry with Anthony as lodger, is actually staying with his daughter and son in law.Also know as WOFF/WOOF in other census returns.
In the 1871 census they had only the one daughter that i know of Sarah Jane R born 1867 Whitby, but i cant even locate her.
Have tried using the various spellings but to no avail. They must have been somewhere

Carol