Hi
I love the graphic!!!! 
I have been looking for John S DUCK b abt 1880, nephew of Grace Lane nee Saunders and cannot find him anywhere in 1881 or 1891. Maybe the only thing to do is to order his birth cert (info on previous post), which will then give us his parents names.
Regarding William Lane and Emma L Morris....
1891;
William H LANE head mar 21 telegraphist b Brixton surrey
Emma L LANE wife mar 25 b Kent, Woolwich b abt 1866
Alice E LANE dau 3 b Southwark , London
Denny? A C LANE 6 months b Camberwell, London
I looked for an Emma L Morris b abt 1866 in Woolwich , kent.
1871:
Cumberland St, Christchurch London
Walter V Morris head mar 40 Carpenter joiner b Hampshire
louisa E Morris wife mar 40 b Woolwich Kent
Emma L Morris 11 scholar b " "
the only thing is that Emma 's DOB is off !!! why i posted this is that Walter's middle intial is " V '..... maybe VAUGHN LOL ...okay , I know ...I am clutching at straws here. 
I also cannot find the marriage between william lane and emma morris ... 
Deb
Dear Deb
I am so glad you like the graphic - I just hope that it is all right by the moderators - you had best download it fast in case it is against any rules! I couldn't see anything against it but they might say it is rather a big 'smiley'! but then it is a BIG 'thank you' indeed.
Like you I have come against a 'virtual' brick wall.
I know that the Welsh family were lords of some kind. As far as the family story goes the girl was regarded by the family as unacceptable.
That is why there was a name change.
HOWEVER, according to the way the gentry and lords had their names, there is always the possibility that whilst the name LORD VAUGHAN/VAUGHN was the title, the actual FAMILY name was MORRIS.
Having considered that possibility I then started looking in the landed gentry but I have to admit I have not checked debretts peerage as I do not know if they were nobility or not. However, there was a family of VAUGHAN who lived in mid-Wales who had a large estate and it is now part of the forestry commission in Wales. I like to think that my ancestors were the kindly folk who helped others, but I also hate to think that any ancestor could be so spiteful as to cut off his son from his inheritance for falling in love with a girl.
That is the sadness of it.
I simply know that my grandmother's mother was EMMA MORRIS and from the census it would seem that her husband was very young when he married.
Having been spurred on by you, I now can answer one of the questions you posed me yesterday:
Elizabeth Saunders remained with her father - and in 1891 was living with him in 36, Grove Lane, Dulwich, Camberwell. As well as her, I then looked below, and lo and behold, there are two more of his daughters - Grace Lane, and her sons, Albert and Charles, but also Ellen, married to Herbert SLOMAN, and their son, JOHN SLOMAN. Herbert Sloman is able seaman, and as I know that her son was supposed to have been a 'sea captain', this would all fit.
That means that Fanny and Mary are the only ones left who could have been married to someone called Mr Duck.
I hope you follow my reasoning - lol!
The children you found included HENRY Lane - he died in 1915, sunk in a naval encounter in the war.
Such tragedy - and I can only pray that he did not suffer.
So I can empathise with those of the Titanic, as my great- grandmother was convinced she heard his voice calling her. Three days later she was out walking with my grandmother and saw the newsboards and it showed her son's ship had been sunk with all hands lost. She fainted. Her husband's hair turned completely white in 3 weeks.
And to remember that millions of families were affected thus all around the world twice in the 20th century.
Lest we forget.
imison
