Thanks Helena,
I think (but could be wrong), that's not the Jane and Robert McDowell on my side or the post you did 16/9/07 that mentions Robert and Jane from the Raloo graveyard.
Keston,
From the Raloo Presbytarian Church records, marriage by James Whitford
1842 Feb 26th. Robert McDowell, son of James McDowell and Jane McWilliam of Gleno. to Jane, daughter of John McDowell and Jane McM_____ of Gleno. in the presense of Bryce McMurtry of Ballysnodd and James McDowell of Gleno.
I think your Gordon McDowell who married Sarah Carter is the brother of my gg grandmother Margaret Townsend (McDowell). They both lived and farmed in Maketu (Ramarama). They both came to NZ the same year (1870). Five of their children had the same names: Robert Henry, Gordon, William, Sarah and Eliza.
On Gordon's death cert, his mother is called Jean (but could it be mistaken for Jane, they sound similar in a Northern Irish accent). Jean/Jane was formerly a McDowell, ties in with above marriage record. The only Gordon McDowell I have ever found is the one who was a witness at Margaret and Alexander Townsends marriage. Are they brother and sister?