Hi again

Another thought!
Do you have the exact information for the birth or christening - date and parents? Or is it from a census?
Do you have the same for the birth of his children? And similar information from his marriage?
Also 1851 and 1841?
Maybe you could post the exact information to help identify him. I could check the originals for more clues if you haven't seen them. If you don't have them maybe you could post the earliest exact details ypou have?
Sorry if I sound fussy, but especially with a local name like Graham, the more we know the more chance of helping.
Enjoy!
It's great fun!
Best wishes
Emms

If you don't have it, maybe you could post the earliest