Hi Richard
Welcome to Rootschat, there are some fantastic people on here who will help wherever they can. I've been researching for 7 years now and without the help of people like John Butters and Raymond Stacey I would never have come so far in finding hubbys ancestors, also your Auntie Lena (Selina), Derek and Terrys sister gave me a lot of information and photos to scan of the Butters family.
I don't know how far you've got with your research but hopefully I can help you as far back as your 10 x Gt Grandfather Richard Parfeye c1560 Fritton Norfolk (Caroline Perfect your 2 x Gt Grandmother married Walter Butters, and that's how the Perfects tie into your family) the earliest Butter I have is William and Rebekah your 6 x Gt Grandparents, and John Nolson/Nelson your 7 x Gt Grandfather.
I have had to change my family tree several times a new leads come to light and you will find that it is always wise to double check any information, that's why there are a few ancestors in hubby's tree with tbc (to be confirmed).
I showed Pete your post and he said to ask you about your Dad and his old vauxhalls

I'll send you a PM after I post this message
Julie