To all those who offered assistance on this thread may I say thanks and for anyone else who finds it while looking for Red Villa Wrexham I have now found it. It is Rhyd Fiddir, in Abenbury. Red Wither Road Wrexham. Elizabeth Taylor James's widow was living there in 1851 and owned her own house. Wonder if it is still standing. Google earth isn't clear in this area, probably something sensitive there. Red Wither, Red Witha or Red Vider all appear to be corruptions of the same place.
Lidgett