Valda - once again thanks for your insight. I keep forgetting to return to the census! I don't know if Christopher Leeming is related. I had only just found Elizabeth's christening record when I was booted out of of the records office, but I did find Christopher's death record on route along with an older Mary, of a similar age to Christopher. Elizabeth's parents? More work in the records office required.
Elizabeth married a William Fishwick in 1815 and can be found on the 1841 and 1851. I think she died in 1860. Interestingly William was a cordwainer and James Spence lists his occupation as shoemaker on his first son's christening. Coincidence? Well there is also another Spence in Leyburn who is also a shoemaker - I don't as yet know the relationship of him to my James.
Whilst going thru the birth records, I also found an entry for a Thomas Leeming - Elizabeth's brother? Now Mary names 2 of her children (neither survived) Thomas.
A lot of coincidences here pointing to the fact that maybe this Leeming family is mine. However, why would Elizabeth go to Gilling to have her illegitimate child, Mary?
Back to James. I have the Banns - no mention that special licence was required - thus does this suggest he was of age, ie born 1809 rather than 1814?
Pels - I can well see how one can get on the wrong track here. Knowing he settled in Leyburn, if I didn't have the census info that he was born in Spennithorne, I would have assumed he could have been the guy born in Wensley.
Sallysmum