Hi
I agree with Kevin, William and Kath. I started off my internet research, idly Googling one day, when I came across someone who was researching my (rare) maiden name at the correct locality. She gradually gave me loads of evidence and contacts, all people who had done good research, so my only input was the addition of evidence I got through my personal branch.
I thanked her of course and have not as yet put my tree on the internet anywhere. However if I did put my tree on Ancestry for example, it would be bound to include stuff researched by my contact and her contacts, simply because they got there first.
Most of this information is in the public domain if you know where to look, and therefore no one owns this info and even if it is felt to be personal because it is about our ancestors, these people were other peolpes ancestors/friends/neighbours/ relations as well.
I do agree that info about living people should not be posted, and that immediate sources must be acknowledged and thanked, but I think that as we are all connected not all that far back, we should not worry about 'controlling' or limiting access, but rather should open up and relax a bit, so that in a few years time we will all know our connections. ( You can choose your friends.......rootschatters

, but cannot choose your relations

)
Happy Christmas to all rootschatters, and many thanks to all those who have helped me up till now. I hope I will soon be clever enough to help others!

Helen