Martha, it's best not to use ALLCAPS as to many people it's like shouting (I also find it makes things harder to read).
Have you got more dates?
Henry Charman married Sarah,
daughter Kate (born when?) married 1860 (had Martha Mildred illegitimate daughter who married Alfred Lee)
other children of Sarah and Henry were Stephen? Alfred? Mary another daughter of Kate?
There is this family in Surrey in 1841:
HO 107/1080/15 Folio 27 page 26
Gorden Hill?, Send, Surrey
Sarah Charman, 50
Jane, 20
Kate, 8
James, 15
Robert, 14
George, 13
Alfred, 6
Charles, 5
Stephen, 1
(all listed as 'born in county' - ie born Surrey)
1861 census:
RG9/425 Folio 127 page 4
Paper Court Lane, Send and Ripley
Sarah Charman, head, widow, aged 69, b. Ripley
William, son, aged 45, b. Woking
Alfred, son, aged 26, b. Send
Charles, son, aged 25, b. Send
Mary, granddaughter, aged 4, b. Send