This is what I have (let me know it you need further and I'll see what I can dig up from home):
From NSW Certificates:
John WHEELER
b circa 1802 London, England
d 7/1/1872 @ Singleton, buried Cof E cem Singleton
occ: Groom (1837), horse breaker (1839) farmer (1857, 1872)
arrive Aust: circa 1836
married 13/9/1836 of Carrington @ AACo County of Glouster by Rev William M COWPER, wit Henry BRADSHAW, Carrington & Eliza PAYNE (Possible cousin/aunt)
to:
Maria Ann(e) Dottin HOGG
b circa 1811 Dartmouth, Eng
d 23/8/1857 @ Melville near Lochinvar, buried C of E West Maitland
arrive Aust: circa 1836
issue:
# 1/ William Joseph b 17/9/1857 @ AACo estate in county Gloucester, married Mary Anne DUFFY 18/4/1860, Rev James Hanly(unclear), wit Michael LESTER (X his mark), Sara DUFFY (X her mark)
# 2/ Henry b 4/6/1839 @ AACo estate in county Gloucester, married @ age 19yrs (resident @ Melville) to Margaret DOOLAN aged 17yrs (resident @ Black Creek), St John's Church West Maitland, by Rev John Thomas LYNCH, Dean, wit John WHEELER, Ellen DOOLAN (parents of bride and groom
not listed).
occ. labourer (1876), carrier (1878)
Henry died 22/2/1878 @ Uralla, issue 5 males & 2 females (all living). Buried @ Uralla, no minister attending.
# 3/John b 1840 (NSW BDM)
# 4/ Charles b. 1842, d 1899, m 1861 (NSW BDM)
# 5/Harriet b. 1844 (NSW BDM)
# 6/ Maria b. 1846 (NSW BDM)
# 7/ George b. 1848 (NSW BDM)
# 8/ Louisa b. 1849 (NSW BDM)
From Henry and Margaret's marriage: 5 males & 2 females
# 1/ John b. 1860 (NSW BDM)
#2/ Patrick B. 1861, d. 1928 (NSW BDM)
# 3/ William b. 1866 (NSW BDM)
# 4/ Margaret b. 1869 (NSW BDM)
# 5/ Joseph James b. 1872, d. 1940 (NSW BDM)
# 6 Ernest Albert b. 1874 (NSW BDM)
# 7 Mary Louisa b. 9/12/1876, d. 19/2/1942 (entered as KEOGH and as having married at age 17 at Armidale to Stephen KEOGH - no record on NSW BDM. 5 of 6 children listed on death cert were registered as WHEELER with no mention of a partner or of previous issue having been born. In addition she varies her age between 2 and 4 yrs out alingment of verifiable facts (family trait? see above).
Her partner was buried on 10/6/1929 aged 59yrs. No entry for his death on NSW BDM. I have John Stephen KEOGH's death certificate. Mother's name given as BEAN - which was what I have always thought. But as death certs are always either 2nd or 3rd hand mistakes/guesses come into the picture. Everything I have found fits Mary Louisa WHEELER. From this point we are entering the field of the living so I can't safely proceed any further down that line.
Bridget DOOLAN
b. circa 1848
From NSW BDM had 6 children (that I found) - no partner listed on index:
# 1/ William J b. 1869
# 2/ William Patrick b. 1873
#3/ Reginald B 1876, d 1876
# 4/ Malinda M b. 1878, d 1878
# 5/ Ethel May b 20/6/1879 @ Singleton, no occupation given by mother only age as 31yrs, born @ Branxton.
Ethel May BEAHAN, 24 yrs, laundress of Armidale, parents Thomas BEAHAN, Fettler & Bridget DOOLAN married 19/7/1904 by Thomas Johnstone D.D. Presbyterian Church, Armidale, wit J J LAWLOR & Maude SHERWOOD, to: Richard Marden MOREY, 28 yrs, Labourer of Armidale, parents Richard Marden MOREY & Margaret Francis Jane SHERWOOD
# 6/ Henry Herbert, b 1882
This is what I have so far. I don't know if this will help matters. I'm trying to straighten out my great grandfather and grand father's stories. Greatgrandfather was supposed to be a jumps jockey and Mary Louisa WHEELER/KEOGH is alledged to have injured herself in a fall from a horse and was crippled by the fall (no mention on her death cert - may be it was Stephen KEOGH the jumps jockey who had the fall).
I originally thought that John WHEELER was the convict John WHEELER aka MAHER as there were at first flush times/places that fit, but have now ruled that out as dates/ages don't fit. Maria and John have no mention of needing the Gov's permission to marry. In addition there is a possibility that Maria came out with Rev William M COWPER. as they were at the same parish St Petrox Dartmouth at the same time and appear in NSW in the same yr. He also marries John & Maria, and baptises their children. But this may all be coincidental.
Cheers,
Helen