Hi Pipj
Perhaps he isn't the right one

Not sure if you have 1841 but this looks possible if it makes sense with your other census entries ... but the Jane daughter?
1841 - East Hetton? St Nicholas, Kelloe, Durham
John Stockdale 30 Coal Miner Y
Ann 25 Y
Thomas 3 Y
Jane 1 Y
HO107/313/10
Folio: 8
Page: 11
Regards
Biker