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Reason for marriage
« on: Saturday 11 November 06 07:56 GMT (UK) »
It seems to be in my families in the Victorian years (when all were supposed to live the straight and narrow life) most marriages occurred a very short time before the birth of the firstborn child of the couple. Was this as common as it appears to be in my families.

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Re: Reason for marriage
« Reply #1 on: Saturday 11 November 06 08:41 GMT (UK) »
The same in mine.  I think it took them that long to find the man and get him to the altar in time!
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Re: Reason for marriage
« Reply #2 on: Saturday 11 November 06 10:21 GMT (UK) »
Lol Bev - glad to hear I'm not unique  ;D  ;D

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Re: Reason for marriage
« Reply #3 on: Saturday 11 November 06 10:22 GMT (UK) »
I've got quite a few of those too, Trish, if it makes you feel any better  ;D
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Re: Reason for marriage
« Reply #4 on: Saturday 11 November 06 10:24 GMT (UK) »
Me too, very common in some of my family, even those who were supposed to be God fearing Baptists!!!!!

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Re: Reason for marriage
« Reply #5 on: Saturday 11 November 06 10:33 GMT (UK) »
Hi Kerry

Most of mine were God fearing protestants of one type or another - I shall have to review my ideas of life in Victorian Great Britain (some of mine were also Scots)

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Re: Reason for marriage
« Reply #6 on: Saturday 11 November 06 10:46 GMT (UK) »
Trish

It makes you wonder doesn't it?  I always thought the Victorians were supposed to be so moral, but they appear no better than any other generation.

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Re: Reason for marriage
« Reply #7 on: Saturday 11 November 06 10:58 GMT (UK) »
Hello

An interesting subject that does make you think twice about Victorian straight laced myths  ;)  And, yes, I too have quite a few suspect births in my tree  :)

Although research is scant (and difficult to verify because of 'late' baptisms) it has been estimated that in the 18th Century pre-nuptial pregnancy occurred in approximately 30% of marriages.  In the first half of the 19th Century it was estimated that in smaller towns around 40% of brides were pregnant at the time of marriage and increased to approximately 50% at mid-century.

The generally touted figure is that between a third and a half of brides were pregnant in the mid-19th century.

If accurate, quite startling really.

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Re: Reason for marriage
« Reply #8 on: Saturday 11 November 06 11:02 GMT (UK) »
Plenty of that going on in my family too.  It wasn't just in Victorian times either.  My Grandparents' married in December and my Dad came along at the beginning of February!  But better still in my husbands family - his Grandparents married on Christmas Day and their first child was born on Boxing Day!  Cutting that fine wouldn't you say  ;)


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