Hello Terry,
Not to fret. It takes a lot of practice to do things automatically. We've all been newbies.
To see your private messages, such as the one that is waiting from CherieLynn, go to the top margin of this page, where it says "Welcome back, TKidd. You have ** messages, ** are new. Click your cursor on the word messages.
Next time that your son-in-law is going to be visiting, tell me ahead of time in a private message and I will arrange to be online at that time. He and I can message each other in real time and I can possibly help him to get them posted.
Cheers,
Westoe