Heh! Glad I started on one of the other names!
1851 HO107/1608/413/3
6 Park Place, Milton next Gravesend, Kent [Park House Academy]Thomas Barnes, pupil, 13, scholar, b. Higham, Kent
... along with lots and lots of other pupils!
1861 RG9/475/83/19
Parsonage Farm, Upper Stoke, KentThomas Barnes, head, unmar, 22, farmer, 200 acres employing 3 men & 4 boys, b. Higham, Kent
Frederick Barnes, brother, unmar, 21, farmer, (as above), b. Higham, Kent
+ three servants, occupations = carter
1871 RG10/1277/108/1
Farm (Purley Hall), Purley, BerkshireThomas Barnes, head, 32, farmer, b. Higham, Kent
Susannah Barnes, wife, 31, b. Cliffe, Kent
Owen T Barnes, son, 8, b. Stoke, Kent
Sidney W Barnes, son, 6, b. Stoke, Kent
Frederic G Barnes, son, 4, b. Stoke, Kent
Evelyn S Barnes, dau, 3, b. Purley, Berks
Thomas Barnes, son, 9mths, b. Purley, Berks
Ann Moon, servant, 20, servant domestic, b. Cliffe, Kent
Charlotte Weller, servant, 13, nursemaid, b. Goring? Oxon

K.