Don't let your head get cold Irret

I did it by chosing a 4 year old Mary with a mum called Mary.....and low and behold there was one called Durdell (Well nearly right Ancestry!!!)
They are just round the corner from where the kids were born(Sue sent me both their birth certs)
So even though we disagree over dads job(bumboat or beer seller)I still think it's more than likely them

Carol
PS If only our ancestors were contactable to ask why they didn't marry till after having had many kids- wouldn't that make this hobby easy?