Dear Gen List Lass,
Thank you for responding so quickly, and sharing that part of your family story. I appreciate your information and links. It's not that our family dwelt or dwells on the sad stories, but they need to be shared. If it's as true with yours as it is with ours, those family stories are told again and again - oral history. I'm working on setting the stories in our family down for coming generations. Some people, I find, want to know more, others don't at all. Northumberland Daughter