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Offline Rishile

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Re: Family history?
« Reply #18 on: Wednesday 13 February 13 08:53 GMT (UK) »
Another member of the trolley club, I'm afraid.

I have also learnt a lot about local geography (local to my birth, that is).  I thought I knew the area well but I didn't.  There are villages I'm discovering that I had never heard of.  I have also found out a lot about the history of the churches in those villages and some of that is fascinating.  Military information still has me scratching my head but I'm getting there.  Employment history and value of money, social history etc.  It's all seeping into my head as I work through my research.

And, yes, I have an instinct for the 'right but to be confirmed' person.  Sometimes they scream at me from the computer screen as if to say 'you've found me at last'. 

On a slightly different level though I have also learnt to be more coherent in my writing, searching the internet is more satisfying (even if it's not FH related), I am more confident when I talk about history and I feel more 'connected' to my family although I have no living relatives that I'm in contact with.

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Re: Family history?
« Reply #19 on: Monday 18 February 13 20:30 GMT (UK) »
I've learned how easy it is to forget or hide your roots. Did my Nan know her Grandmother was German? Possibly. If not her father certainly knew as he was born well before WW1. Nan certainly knew my Grandad was from an Irish Catholic background and kept it quiet because mixed marriages were frowned upon.

On the other side of the family I vaguely remember my Grandad talking about his Grandfather accidentally shooting someone but no one else in the family had any knowledge of it or that the same man was lost at sea six years later. Also forgotten were the family's residency of a famous old tavern and some interesting occupations.


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« Reply #20 on: Monday 18 February 13 22:05 GMT (UK) »

No apologies needed Cas, it's a very thought-provoking topic.

Like others here, I sometimes sense a 'rightness' about a potential
ancestor and it is very satisfying when that feeling is confirmed.

I don't know if it's genetic or not, but I love to do puzzles, and
to me family history is the ultimate puzzle because it never ends -
once one person is found, there are two more hiding behind them.

Apart from learning the nuts and bolts of researching, and trying
to pick up related skills such as other languages, deciphering
documents, and so on, I have learned a little about how my mind
works, and to guard against my own shortcomings, in particular,
my tendency to create my own brick walls out of assumptions.

Always a keen reader, I now read on a much broader range of
subjects than ever I did, and regret that I came to them so
late in life.

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« Reply #21 on: Monday 18 February 13 22:52 GMT (UK) »
good thread...

i think that not a day goes by where i dont learn something more about genealogy or the vast amount of resources,   and if i see someone going down the same track like to help or share those resources...

what i cant stand is "know it alls " who judge folk for answering in the way that person  saw fit...
One hundred people may have versed themselves on the same subject and all formed an opinion, but when someone else comes along to give a reference to the text they should not be judged or told or complained about that they may not speak or participate.

the principle reasons we are using fh boards to learn or help in any way we can....

i think we all look at things in a different light or challenge our brains to the interpretation of the material before us.

if a person in our family tree had a particular occupation or survived the best way they could given the circumstances for which they lived so be it and admiration can only be given.

IF i chose to be a signwriter picture framer and cabinetmaker then that was my choice, but i dont judge for you being a garbolist or a scientist... in fact quite the opposite....  i would encourage it because its your choice of life.

I might not understand the technical aspects of your job but never would i say you must not discuss it or form an opinion regarding your understanding of the topic.

I hope all rootschatterers publish award winning or best selling books, and have years of great yarns to share about your kin. 

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Re: Family history?
« Reply #22 on: Monday 18 February 13 23:34 GMT (UK) »
There are two or three stories in my tree that I've kept from family members because they are quite disturbing. They don't involve direct ancestors but siblings of ancestors. I think it would be inappropriate to share difficult stories with other family members with only a casual interest in family history. It can be difficult deciding what to do when you discover skeletons in the closet.


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« Reply #23 on: Tuesday 19 February 13 09:40 GMT (UK) »
Blue, that is why I always say the dead relations are so much easier to deal with; you don't have to worry about upsetting anyone!  :)

Fastfusion, well said. I agree whole-heartedly with your sentiments.

Veeblevort, you have reminded me of another skill-set I have had to pick up: always an amateur student of other languages, I have had to pick up the various genealogical terms in Swedish. My Swedish ancestors have proved somewhat challenging, but definitely not difficult. I think the language barrier has proven the biggest hurdle, as a lot of their records are more informative than their English-speaking counterparts.
I am Australian, from all the lands I come (my ancestors, at least!)

Pine/Pyne, Dowdeswell, Kempster, Sando/Sandoe/Sandow, Nancarrow, Hounslow, Youatt, Richardson, Jarmyn, Oxlade, Coad, Kelsey, Crampton, Lindner, Pittaway, and too many others to name.
Devon, Dorset, Gloucs, Cornwall, Warwickshire, Bucks, Oxfordshire, Wilts, Germany, Sweden, and of course London, to name a few.

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« Reply #24 on: Sunday 27 April 14 19:29 BST (UK) »
Not been chasing FH for a while, but have now returned. 

Fastfusion, well said. I also agree whole-heartedly with your sentiments. Thanks all for your imput and stories :)

Regards Cas

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« Reply #25 on: Monday 28 April 14 10:10 BST (UK) »
Well said fastfusion, I totally agree with you.

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« Reply #26 on: Monday 28 April 14 20:03 BST (UK) »
I think I have a broader understanding of social history now too, because of my research. I've learnt a lot about the lives of men during WW1 and how complex it was. Before I'd always though all young men went off to war, but two of my ancestors worked on the docks in various guises, so I learnt something there.

I do think there is such a thing as a 'nose' for when an ancestor is yours.

I've sometimes wondered if we are all a bit like salmon and are instinctively drawn back to the places of our ancestors.

Before I'd done any family history research, I knew my Grandparents were from Hull but I didn't really know much beyond that, such as where they'd lived or how far back our history went there.

I went to an open day at Hull Uni and felt very comfortable in the city straight away, so I decided to pick it as my Uni. A few months later I went to Hull again with both my parents and we went to the marina and dockside. I can remember clearly even now, having a very strong feeling of calm and of being at home looking out over the Humber and around the dock buildings. When I eventually did attend there I often went down to that part of town and wondered around, again always feeling very at ease and at home.

It wasn't until I started to research my family history that I found out that my ancestors had worked on the docks and lived not even a third of a mile away from where I had stood on that day. It was almost as if they were whispering over my shoulder.

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