Ooooh this is an old thread! Lovely to see it revived though, and, nutkin, I do hope you are still on RootsChat and can tell us what you named your baby, who obviously is no longer a baby but coming up to nine years old?
Getting back to the subject in hand, although most of my grandfathers had a first name John, some of them had a middle name of Oliver, and some of their brothers also had the middle name Oliver, and one of my uncles was a John Oliver. I eventually found out that the Oliver came from my 3x great grandma's maiden name, and now apparently it is the most popular boy's name, so what goes round comes round as they say? This also really helped me in making connections to the wider family who had also continued the tradition of using Oliver as a middle name.
The post regarding 'needing' a middle name in the USA is also interesting, as the mother's maiden name is usually kept after marriage, as I believe they also do in Spain. This was fantastic for me in tracing a half sister who I didn't know existed until a couple of years ago, because, although she's married, and also already has a middle 'christian' name, she kept her maiden name, which is the same as mine, as her 'middle' name. Without this tradition, I don't think I would ever have found her!
