Hello again, I'd love to see the pic of the gravestone, which relates to my 3xgt grandfather. Richard, born c 1781 married Jane Butlin in Northants (where his Reg't was based) 19 Oct 1812.
You are right in that my gt grandfather was John b 6 Apr 1852. I have his b/cert which shows he is the son of Richard Mitchell (born on the sea) and Sarah Parker. I was surprised when i received this cert as, like you, I had thought that Richard married Sarah Doane - but no! The Census of Richard, born on the sea, shows Sarah as born in Fulmer, which is where Sarah Brown Parker was born in 1820, so I think it all ties up ok. Richard Mitchell, senior, the husband of Jane, appears to have been in the Army from 1809 to 1831 - in the 14th Regt of Foot (The Buckinghamshire Regt) and was a Chelsea Pensioner because of the length of his service. He was not at the Royal Chelsea Hosp because he had a wife and so was an out-pensioner. His death cert says he was a Sgt and Army Pensioner - d/death 6 Dec 1856. Would now like to hear how we are "related".