Yes I was - probably not the wisest thing. This John Thomas (junior) was my grandfather. My father was only approx. 9 when his father died, and remembers very little about him. Of course in those days children were "seen and not heard" so he didn't ask questions about his father's origins. His wife originally came from Kent, though both of her parents had died before 1901, when she was living with a brother in Ramsgate. It is SO frustrating ! Is it possible to find out people who were dismissed from the Forces? I wondered if there was a possibility there.