Hi Valda.
Yes, the family would have been split apart with a scandal like that. As a child I remember Fanny and Emily and they never seemed to meet and my late mother made hints about a family scandal but wouldn't enlarge on it. I too have thought it may have been a brother of Joseph, but how on earth can I find that out? Aargh !!
Also discovered 'Nellie' Goodall in 1901 in the Cliff Fever hospital, and have 'Googled' it to see if there are any records, but cannot find it - shut down years ago I expect. Asked about it on here weeks ago, but no replies.
Silas