Send a scan by all means - I'll pm my e-mail and happily go and have another look.
To be fair, the person I spoke to said that the writing in whatever record she was searching through, was a bit unclear, as regards 121 she could well have read Anderson for Steadman (I suppose!).
At one time there used to be small 'spikes' in the ground in the cemetery, bearing numbers, so that you could narrow down the areas for the different graves, unfortunately this doesn't seem to be the case anymore and when I mentioned this to the council, she seemed surprised - clearly either they've been removed or its a practice that has ceased during her period of tenure.
The only other thing she said was that "... some of the graves have number markers," unfortunately I didn't see any.
Just one last thing, if, as I suspect, you've visited other graves, you'll know that unless headstones are carved really deeply, the weather soon affects the stone, leaving any inscription almost illegible. I found several in K2 which were as recent as 1998 but which were almost illegible.
But, I'll happily have another look.
MM