Can't see John in 1861 at first sight ...
1861
RG9/2494 41 5
Stanley, Derbyshire
Mary Thomson, head, wid, Grocer
Rebecca, dau, 7, Assistant
John, son, 15, Miner
Frances, dau, 13, scholar
Sarah Ann, dau, 11, scholar
Rhoda, dau, , scholar
Elizabeth, dau, 7
William, son, 3
All born Stanley
This looks like him in 1851
1851
HO107/2141 491 3
Spondon, Derbyshire
Stanley Village
Joseph Thompson, head, 37, Shoemaker
Mary, wife, 29
Rebecah, dau, 7, scholar
John, son, 5, scholar
Frances, dau, 3
Sarah A, dau, 1
All born Stanley