Hi again Marie
Right, I think Ive found Mary in
18611861 Cencus-Adlingham
RG9/3171-31-12
Mary Gibson 52 head Widow b Bousfield

-Lancashire
Ann " 14 dau b Newton
Mary Agnes " 6 Grandaughter b Newton
John " 3 Grandson b Newton
Elizabeth Fell 7 Grandaughter b Newton
If you look at the 1861 post that "Downunder" posted you will notice there is a " Fell " family there. Also the servant called Ashburner in " Downunders " post could be connected to the last post I sent you where James is employed by the Ashburner family.
Coincidence......I will let you decide

Joe