The ONLY grave I have found in England was a gguncle - died 1935, buried in Wolvercote cemetery, Oxford. He was a C of E priest - only had a wooden cross with a strange little triangular "hat" on top of it - don't know what that means. But any inscription had long since disappeared from the cross, which is decaying and will fall sometime, and the grave is very overgrown by bushes. Sad, really. But I am not there to preserve it.
Still, suppose I shouldn't complain - I know where many family graves are, here in Oz, both locally and in other cities, and even found a great-grandfather's grave in the bush way out West, in good order, so I suppose I haven't done too badly!
MarieC