Thank you for your comments. i realy think I have taken this as far as I can. Rose had no siblings, no
children and all I have is a name which may or may not be Rus and they would not be my family anyway, so I just have to accept that the family Blower are all laid to rest. I thank all of you who have tried to help me. It is good to know there are so many willing to help.
kindest regards Molly