Hi Kris,
Yes, you are 100% correct, it is a very confusing family.
I have actually been helping a friend (John WHERRY) trace his family.
We have managed to get most of them here in Australia but over there is a different matter.
We went over to Cornwall last year to see what could be found.
Unfortunately the limited time that we had to not only search for his lot but also mine in Cheshire certainly didn't prove to be very beneficial.
Eliza certainly was a mystery. Not the only one, mystery that is, that we found however.
John is what you would say, Internet illiterate but he is certainly getting better in time.
I have sent him a copy of the data that you have given me and I'm now waiting for an update from him to compare data.
It would make it a lot easier if we had internet access to the various Census records.
I have a copy of the 1881 but unfortunately his family arrived here in Australia in 1876.
I appreciate your help and info that you have provided.
The websites that you have indicated will give me a bit more reading & searching to do. Thank you.
Cheers
Len