Please and Barton, please and thank you.

[Sandra Parker]

George Jacobs Please, born Wootten in 1858, married Elizabeth Mary Barton, born Seaview 1857. She was the daughter of George Robert Barton 1823-1861, and Betsey Shiner, 1823-1862.

George Please and Elizabeth Mary had children, Arthur Joseph, 1884-?. Emily Maude, 1893-?, Albert Victor George, 1897-?, and Maggie Elizabeth, 1900-?. Elizabeth Mary died (Lizzy M PLEASE registered at Brentford 3a 274 march qtr 1935 aged 77 ).

George Jacobs Please then married Elizabeth Sarah Barton, born Kessingland Suffolk, registered Dec Q 1936. She was Elizabeth Mary's niece. She had been in service and presumably lived with her Aunt and Uncle prior to the Aunt's death. I cannot find any residence for her between 1901 and 1936 as yet, so this is conjecture.

George Jacobs Please died in 1939 in Blean, Kent. Elizabeth Sarah Please (Barton), my G Aunt Lisbeth, died in 1960 at Bromley. There were no children and my family had no knowledge of the original Please children.
I understand that by 1931 it was legal to marry your niece, though this relationship was by marriage.
Obviously this was not to Elizabeth the younger's,  financial benefit as she spent the rest of her life living with her sister and brother in law at Herne Bay, Kent.

Does anyone have any knowledge of the Please family, please. I do have census and other data for the Barton families.
By the way, it's overwhelming trying to search any site, anywhere, for a member of the Please family. Everyone is so polite in their listings, there are millions of responses!

[Tati]

Hi Sandra,

I can see George in 1871 and 1861 - any use?

[Sandra Parker]

Wonderful, thanks.
I forgot to add that I have 1881, 1891 and !901 census for George Please.
He was prison warder at Parkhurst prison.
Sandra

[Little Nell]

There was another child before Arthur - Ethel May, she died aged 26 days (  ) in 1882.

Emily M Please is listed as marrying Frank A Robinson 1916 at St Edmund Wootton

Maggie E Please is listed as marrying Montague G Mew 1922 at St Edmund Wootton

Albert V G Please married Dorothy Wheeldon 1932 St Edmund Wootton

George Jacobs Please had an older sister Sarah Ann born in 1856, a younger sister Emily born 1860, and a younger brother named Albert Victor born in 1864.  I haven't found his parents' marriage listed in the IOW index.

Nell

[Tati]

1871
RG10/1164 58 6 & 7
Wootton Arreton, Hampshire
William Please, head, 45, Carpenter empl. 1 man, b. Devon Washfield
Sarah, wife, 44, b. Dorset Wimborne
Harriet, dau, unm, 18, b. IOW Carisbrooke
George J, son, 12, scholar, b. Parish of Arreton
Emily, dau, 10, scholar, b. do.

1861
RG9/656 35 18
Arreton, Hampshire
Wootton
William Place, head, 35, Wheelwright, b. Devon Washfield
Sarah, wife, 34, b. Dorset Wimborne
Wm Hy, son, 11, scholar, b. do.
Charlotte, dau, 10, scholar, b. do.
Harriott, dau, 8, scholar, b. Hants Newport
Mary, dau, 7, scholar, b. Wootton
Sarah, dau, 5, scholar, b. do.
Geo, son, 2, scholar, b. do.
Emily, dau, 6mo, b. do.

Tanja  

[Tati]

1851
HO107/1854 347 6
Wimborne Minster, Dorset
'Bushes'
William Pleace, head, 25, Wheelwright, b. Devon Washfield
Sarah, wife, 24, b. Wimborne Minster
William Hy, son, 1, b. do.
Charlotte, dau, 1, b. do.

and next door - might be relevant
'Dog Dean'
James Jacobs, head, 48, Farmer of 33 acres, Wimborne
Sarah, wife, 47, b. Middlesex not known
Charles, son, 21, Carpenter (apprentice), b. Wimborne Minster
Edmund, son, 19, Farmer's son, b. do.
George, son, 13, Farmer's son, b. do.
Mary, dau, 9, b. do.

Tanja 

[Little Nell]

and next door - might be relevant

Probably - the maiden name of George's mother is shown as Jacobs!

Nell

[Tati]

I have had a look in 1841 for a Sarah Jacobs in Wimborne and there are 2 

One age 15 a female servant, and one age 13 with the family found above.

Tanja 

[Sandra Parker]

Goodness, what a lot of information, thank you both very much.
Interesting that all of the daughters at home in 1861, were somewhere else ten years later, aged 15-20. other than the youngest, Emily.
Thank you for the possible 'Jacobs connection' next door in 1851.
Gives me lots to chase up, well try to anyway!
Once again, appreciate so much the help forum members give,
Sandra 
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