A BIG ,Thank you! To all who contributed to this thread.
Frustration is a terrible thing,and personal interest added to it can cause mayhem!
There are quite a few people in the same boat on both sides of the discussion,some desparately seeking,some really willing to help,but the thread between seeker and helper can't be established due to dearth of info:
I speak as one who know's,not as an onlooker.
Patience,good humour,plain old fashioned never say die,is the way to go.
Goggy.