Hello Starnamminhee, The Hayward of different spellings are on my husbands side of the family, also the surname Carr.
As I use the library for all my computer work I do not have my files with me, but I do know that the Hayward family have had all the spellings that are in the title of this e.mail over the years. I have all but the 1871 census (with the help of Rootschat) for Alfred Heywood (B) 1832 Rotherhithe/Bermondsey, I believe him to be unmarried at this date, so far nobody has managed to find him, leather dresser is the occupation later on. He was (M) at Newington 1853. Thats all I can remember at the moment.
Alice Elizabeth Carr (B) 1853 abt. I cannot find her (B) her Father Robert Carr coachman. I have her (M) cert. to Augustus Lovell 25/12/1871 she was a minor when (M) her Father Robert Carr coachman deceased. So far I have four (B) certificates none with Father Robert, one has no Father, only Mother (B) workhouse. So far have not found her on the 1871 census, which would give a clue. there is an Alice E. on the 1861 but not Father Robert, in later census (B) England, Newington and Pentonville, not alot of help. Will get back to you when I have more info. Ann