Hi everyone
Thanks for all your help. Yes I've tried most armed forces websites, including this one. I don't have a lot to go on, and I'm not sure if I'll ever find out which regiment he was in, not without his army number.
I've also built my family tree on genes, and have had contact with two distant cousins of my mam's on her mam's side. Also a distant cousin on my husband's side through them. I would definitely recommend it to anyone. But on all the websites I've used, nobody has come up with anything on the Fordes. I think it's a full stop.
I am going to sit tonight and write a long letter to my uncle, and ask him to write back with as much information as he can remember about his mother and father, hopefully something may come up that hasn't before. I have tried Ethel Main in the marriages to see if she was married before. There was one, with somebody I can't remember now, but it turned out to be somebody else's relation, and not mine.
Anyway thanks again
Rosemary