Lila,
You've got a lot to go off.

It's more than likely that it is Pea Farm, Oxhill, Stanley. Due to them living in Noplace.
Noplace is just East of Stanley between Stanley and Beamish (where the open air museum is)
Pea Farm is on the West side of Stanley, just down the hill (2 or 3 fields) north of the main road.
From a planning application, march this year, is is Wards that have the farm.
A few years ago i was speaking to the woman whose husband had the farm, can't remember what the name was, but they also had the carpet place inside Stanley old market.
(They may be related to the Vickers, i.e. farm handed down).
The main registry office for Births, Marriages and Deaths for Derwentside District is in Stanley.
John who died in the 1st World War, If he lived in the Stanley area, They usually had a photo in the local paper and the Newcaste Journal for soldiers that died.
p.s. if you get his death certificate it should tell you more info + his age, also there might be something in the local paper.
Regards
Rewcastle