Hi Iris,
Thanks for your reply! I take your point about it being located more in Northfleet, but as a young boy I spent a lot of time there visiting rellies etc, and I got into the habit of referring to Swanscombe, Northfleet, Rosherville, Gravesend and Milton, collectively as 'Gravesend'. Old habits die hard!!

The chalk quarries were indeed a dreadful place to work, with living conditions so bad that General Gordon took up their cause during his time in Gravesend.
I was interested to hear that your nan lived in Bycliffe Cottages in the 1901 Census. I also had rellies there in 1901, namely my grandmother & great-grandparents, and my 2xgt grandparents, both living at different addresses though. Maybe your nan knew my people.
I haven't posted anything on the GHS forum yet as I only found it yesterday, and to be honest I didn't think it looked very 'active'. However, I should give it a chance, so I'll probably contribute sooner or later.
Regards,
Swampy

P.S My 3xgt grandfather, born in Northfleet and wed in Milton, had James & Mary Loft as his marriage witnesses. Are they rellies of yours?