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Offline Zelley

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« Reply #279 on: Saturday 29 July 06 09:48 BST (UK) »
The Fallen Green Leaves:  Zelley

As I search through my Family Trees and the trees of others,
if it was a song, it would be the saddest song of all.  The
sound of a fallen green leaf of the family tree is the saddest sound of all.

Not to select one over another, it was the case of young
Herbert John Zelley dying in 1897  that was an important
factor that led me to appreciate family history and spend the last 15 years searching and communicating.

In his case, there was a storm, a large oak tree, and the
home by the waterfront.  Suddenly, the tree crashed onto the roof of the abode and killed four year old  Herbert.  Such a
shame, and others were injured.

Of interest, about sixty years later, I came close to drowning
a short distance from where Herbert died.  In my case,
two local  children were playing on a sailboat when we swung out and slipped.  At the time, I couldn't swim, but
remember going under the docked sailboat and servicing in front of the boat and nearly under the wharf (Gulp").

Then again, another sad case was the loss of a second cousin
(aged 18) in the 1941 Blitz of London.  She was one of many
including other family members celebrating a birthday party.
But, the gift package from a bomber overhead put a sudden
end to the celebrations.  Now that is so sad.  The candles are the last thing that should be blown away at a birthday party, not the guests.

In closing, the saddest thought of all is thinking that
"the little grren leaf will never turn a golden brown
 after it has has fallen down".

 :'( :'(  The flood of tears, teardrop by lonely teardrop,
will never wash away the pain and sorrow of the lost hopes, wishes, and dreams, for the potential of the young child
that falls down and becomes lost.  :'( :'(
Zelley,  Lovell, Godbold, Woods, Phillips, Lewis, Emery,
Magee, Baker, White. Flisher, Kyne, Tilston, Valence/Vallens,
Mabb/Mabbe, Bellamy, Selley, Martha Smith, Arno (of Dartmouth, Devon}.
Dorset, London, Warwick, East Anglia, Kent,  Devon
North Wales          

The ancestors lived here and there, in many scattered
places, with various occupations

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Re: What was the saddest death in your Tree ?
« Reply #280 on: Monday 28 August 06 17:29 BST (UK) »
What was the saddest death in my family?
Probably my mother-in-law's earlier this year.

She was adopted. She knew her mother's name but not her father's, and there was no father's name on the birth certificate when I sent for it.
She often wondered who he was and whether she had any siblings.

I have since discovered that her mother also had 2 other children (also no father named). So she had an elder and younger sister that she did not know about. And to make matters worse; they lived no more than 4 or 5 miles away!!
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Re: What was the saddest death in your Tree ?
« Reply #281 on: Tuesday 29 August 06 11:44 BST (UK) »
That is sad, if only she could have known.
Bartlett/Henley on Thames
Caponhurst/Buckinghamshire and?
Denchfield/North Marston/Bucks
Webb/Winchester
Mathias/Pembroke/Pembroke Dock
John/Pembroke/Pembroke Dock
Smith/Portsmouth/Portsea
Purchas/Bucks and?
Olliffe/Bucks

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Re: What was the saddest death in your Tree ?
« Reply #282 on: Tuesday 29 August 06 12:59 BST (UK) »
My Mothers grandad died in Birmingham on the way to see his new baby and wife in hospital.There wasa riot or demonatration on and the street was packed,he stepped backwards off the kerb and got hit by a Police man weilding a truncheon at the crowd.He was bundled off and he died of his injuries.
Yesterday my Mom now 83 told me with tears in her eyes of when her baby brother Leonard died aged 18 months of meningitis :'(...he used to say tick tock instead of clock and he had a mass of golden curls.time helps to heal but does not take away all the pain.
Bit of a sad thread this
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Re: What was the saddest death in your Tree ?
« Reply #283 on: Wednesday 30 August 06 21:08 BST (UK) »
One of my wife's ancestors was a miller. He wore a smock, as they did in those days. It caught in the cogwheels and he was drawn in to the machinery. According to the inquest, he lingered for three days.
ABEL(L), 18c, Winstone GLS and around
ASHCROFT, mainly 19c, Aughton, LAN
GIBBINS, all, Miserden GLS and around
HAGUE, mainly Malton, YRK but they got around
HAVILAND etc, 17-19c, Winstone GLS and around
HAVILAND etc, 16c, Poole DOR
HAVILAND etc, 15-16c, Guernsey CI
HERBERT, 18-19c, various GLS
OCCOULD etc, 17c, wherever in GLS
TURK(E), 18c, various GLS
VANDERPANT/VAN DER PANT, all !

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Re: What was the saddest death in your Tree ?
« Reply #284 on: Wednesday 30 August 06 22:50 BST (UK) »
Poor man, three days. How terrible that must have been.
Meningitis, it's so sad, one of the girls on another board has just lost her sister to that, and I lost my cousin. sad sad.
Bartlett/Henley on Thames
Caponhurst/Buckinghamshire and?
Denchfield/North Marston/Bucks
Webb/Winchester
Mathias/Pembroke/Pembroke Dock
John/Pembroke/Pembroke Dock
Smith/Portsmouth/Portsea
Purchas/Bucks and?
Olliffe/Bucks

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Re: What was the saddest death in your Tree ?
« Reply #285 on: Thursday 31 August 06 00:44 BST (UK) »
These are all truly sad, but from a purely personal point of view I would have to say that the saddest death in my tree, and the one I avoid looking at, is the mother of my children a few days before Christmas 2004 at the age of 54.
Banks, Beer, Bowes, Castle, Cloak, Coachworth, Dixon, Farr, Golder, Graves, Hicks, Hogbin, Holmans, Marsh, Mummery, Nutting, Pierce, Rouse, Sawyer, Sharp, Snell, Willis: mostly in East Kent.
Ey, Sawyer: London
Evans: Ystradgynlais, Wales
Snell: Snettisham, Norfolk
Knight, Burgess, Ellis: Hampshire
Purdy: Ireland/Canada/Durham/Pennsylvania
McCann: Ireland
Morrow: Pennsylvania
Sparnon: any
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Re: What was the saddest death in your Tree ?
« Reply #286 on: Thursday 31 August 06 00:57 BST (UK) »
My two brothers

I lost one brother at the age of 28 with asthma he had had from being an infant

48 years yesterday 29 .8.1958

And my second brother was killed in Albury Australia aged 38  27.4.1965 as he went to get the job started for the next day .A chain broke on the machine he was busy with and he was killed instantly.

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Re: What was the saddest death in your Tree ?
« Reply #287 on: Thursday 31 August 06 01:00 BST (UK) »
Bill 749

How sad I know its sad at Christmas my mum died 15 December 1990

Elizabeth

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