Hi,
I am not sure we are in the right part of rootschat, but anyway, I am just awaiting the Suffolk 1861 census, and then I should have a lot, hopefully, of useful info for you.
You can contact me off list using my email, which is avaiolable from my site pages.
Kevan
p.s.
I am not doing a one name study of the Wilding family as there are millions of them, particularly in Lancashire, BUT i do always answer a query, and always make an attempt to answer peoples queries.