Hi Louisa
I have a Spilman connection also and have done some work on this family tree. My Great Grandmother was Sarah Benson Spilman who was a daughter of Robert Benson Spilman (born 1844) mentioned in the note by Geoff. I can tell you:
Robert Benson Spilman was born in 1844 in Alkborough. His occupation in the 1881 and 1891 census was recorded as a farmer. He died on the 25th June 1934 at Clixby House. He married Mary Ann Spilman (nae Topham), who was born about 1847, also of Alkborough. Mary Ann died on the 10 March 1927 in Clixby, where she was buried. Their children were:
a. Florence, born about 1876 in Alkborough
b. John Topham, born about 1880 in Alkborough
c. Jessie Emily, born about 1882 in Alkborough
d. Sarah Eleanor, born about 1883 in Alkborough
e. Anna, born about 1886 in Alkborough
f. Lucy, born about 1888 in Alkborough
g. Henry Christopher, born about 1890 in Alkborough
Sarah married my Great Grandfather Cyril Percival Markham on the 6th June 1911 in Clixby, Lincolnshire. Sarah was born in the last quarter of 1883 in Alkborough, Lincolnshire. She died aged 56 years of liver cancer on the 21st January 1942. My Grandfather George was at her side when she died in Cabourne.
Notably the name Benson that originated from Sarah Benson was passed on down through my Grandfather, Unlce and his son.
Hope that is of some help.
Regards
Darren