mines self explanatory, but i will admit, when i first joined, i was getting the males and females mixed up. i am a bit thick i know, but for ages i thought grace land was a girl called grace,{sorry graceland} andi did not know till today that ss rhondda was not a girl, named rhondda {sorry again} and funnily enough it does make a difference , if you think you are talking to another female,it comes accross as to familier if the person is a male, there are still lots of names out there, that i dont know the sex of , so i am care ful, when i speak to them in case i get it wrong, i will just do like we do in the potteries, and call everbody duck, ok, nora T