Hi Lel
Found your 1881 census entry
Name, Relation, Marital Status, Gender, Age, Birthplace, Occupation, Disability
James HONEYSETT, Head, M, Male, 51, Ashburnham, Sussex, England, Carrier
Mary HONEYSETT, Wife, M, Female, 55, Warbleton, Sussex, England, Carriers Wife
George HONEYSETT, Son, U, Male, 23, Hooe, Sussex, England, Groom (D)
Henry HONEYSETT, Son, U, Male, 18, Hooe, Sussex, England, Painter
William HONEYSETT, Son, Male, 15, Ninfield, Sussex, England, Ag Lab
Edward HONEYSETT, Son, Male, 13, Herstmonceux, Sussex, England, Scholar
John HONEYSETT, Son, Male, 9, Herstmonceux, Sussex, England, Scholar
Source Information:
Dwelling Gardner Street
Census Place Herstmonceaux, Sussex, England
Family History Library Film 1341247
Public Records Office Reference RG11
Piece / Folio 1042 / 24
Page Number 6
Now come the problems.
Honeysett is quite a popular name in this part of Sussex and there are many variations of it:
Hunnisett, Hunset, Honeyset, Honeysett, Honneysett, Honnisett, Honesett, Honnesett, etc, etc.
If James was born 1830 (from age in 1881 Census) then would expect him to be 10 / 11 in 1841 depending on which side of the census he was born.
In the 1841 census there is a 11 year old James at Wartling, son of Robert & Mary and in the IGI, there is the following:
78. JAMES HUNNISETT - International Genealogical Index
Gender: Male Marriage: 16 AUG 1851 Wartling, Sussex, England
Married Mary Gander aged 24 – Father was William Gander; Groom was 22 - Father was Robert Hunnisett. (2 years difference in ages at marriage)
Your James and Mary have 4 years difference, although she is older than him as in the marriage above.
As yet, I have not been able to locate a Mary Gander in the 1841 with a father named William.
Have looked in the 1851 census, but not as yet managed to match up with your details. What we really need is the 1871, 1861, etc - then follow them backwards; but dont have access to them at home.
Not as yet been able to tie up the Ashburnham or Warbleton as shown in 1881 census - but all the places mentioned are with 5 - 10 miles of each other.
Will keep looking though
Chris in 1066Land