My four great grandmothers were:
Charlotte Barwell, born 6/7/1851 in Gretton, Northants, died 16/4/1935 in Greenwich. Charlotte's stepfather and brother were both bakers, and she married my ggfather William Thomas Wade, who was also a baker in 1871. She had 8 children, two of whom died before her. A hard life, if family accounts are to be believed.
Victoria Adelaide Barham, born 25/3/1865 in Ightham, Kent, died 1913 of breast cancer. Victoria Adelaide was brought up by her stepfather Barham, and married under that name, but her true surname was Corke - her mother had been married previously to a Richard Corke who was a seaman on HMS Victoria. She was a loving sister to 11 half siblings, and had 12 children herself. Two of them died in what must have been the most appalling time of her life in January 1893, aged 5 and 3, whilst my grandfather, aged 4, survived.
Ann Kesneer, born 1848 in Antwerp, Belgium. She came to England in approximately 1875 and married Victor Desire Van Steenhoven, also from Antwerp, who was apparently as flighty as his name suggests. She had 6 children.
The final great grandmother I know only as Mary Ann Burton - I haven't found her maiden name or her marriage details to my great grandfather. Mary Ann will probably have lived in the greatest poverty, being born in c 1851 in Whitechapel in London, and spent her life in the worst parts of East London, her husband a dock labourer in constant search for work and money.
When I started this research I was struck by the thought that all those pictures of Victorian street urchins which I had previously tutted over, could really have been my forebears. I raise my glass to them all.