Hi Andrea
Yes that is him on the 1851 census, then he appears with the whole family (m-i-law, mother) in 1861.
That could be his parents marriage as I know his mother was Elizabeth from the census. I have his marriage cert (he married at 50!) His mother was from Heathfield. Is there any other info of the marriage, ie witnesses, their parents names, etc ? Sorry to ask, I don't know much about Parish records & what info is on them !
I still would like confirmation of his parents from the Eastbourne Records, though just to be sure I have the right one.
Thanks
Chilljoan