THe missing father - James Gulliver was my 3 x gt grandfather. My line descends from Ellens brother George.
I have Ellen on the 1861 census:
No. 8 Hunters Building, Rail Street, Dawdon, Seaham harbour
Rbt Henry Gardiner   H  m   36   Grocer                Born: Rainton, Durham
Jane Gardiner             W m   32                      Born: Seaham Harbour
Geo. Hw. Gardiner          S      8                      Born: Seaham Harbour
Annie Gardiner          D      4                      Born: Seaham Harbour
Jeremiah Wheatley  Boarder  un   50   Grocer            Born: Staindrop
John Pollit             Boarder  un   23   Weslyan Minister      Born: Bolton, Lancs
Ellen Gulliver             Servant  un   23   Gen. Servant         Born: Durham, Durham
I'm afraid that I don't know much about james as the trail has gone a bit cold, but would appreciate any help you can give with the Gullivers
Jackie