Nell,
OK, I'm duly exposed as a lazy old ***!! It's just difficult trying to do all this AND have a life (AND earn a living) at the same time...
I agree that all of us should be assumed innocent until proven guilty. Therefore, I'm happy to assume that Henry's second wife (also called Charlotte?) died in childbirth, but that Charlotte Jnr (Mark 2) survived. But, no, I don't have any evidence of the second marriage. And speculation about in-breeding and deflowering by the local squire is far more entertaining, don't you think?

And I was hoping there might be some contributors from Lymington who might be able to shed more light than multimap on what these roads were like back in Victorian times.
Cheers,
Brian